Showing posts with label Inspiration: Wisdom. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Inspiration: Wisdom. Show all posts

Saturday, December 14, 2019

Difference between Training and Learning

Major Dr. Preba told us the story of Mahendra Prasad and Rajendra Prasad, of ancient India.

Mahendra Prasad was the Prime Minister of a Maharaja (King) in a faraway kingdom, and was an expert in interpreting dreams. One day, the Maharaja dreamt that he lost all his hair, and asked Mahendra to interpret the dream. Being skilled and honest, Mahendra explained that it was a sign that the queen may pass-away pretty soon. The Maharaja was super angry, and ordered Mahendra to be executed.

Rajendra Prasad was Mahendra’s younger brother and long time assistant. Being from a family of advisers, he replaced Mahedra as the Prime Minister…

After awhile, the Maharaja again dreamt that he lost all his hair, and summoned Rajendra to interpret his dream.

Rajendra remembered the fate of his elder brother. He calmly explained that the Maharaja will live very very long, longer than the queen…

He survived...

Knowledge is IQ, but presentation is EQ.

Few days back I attended a half-day seminar by Major Dr. Prebagaran (R) (LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drpraba/?originalSubdomain=my), organized by IEM JB, on Rescuing Troubled Projects. The seminar didn't dwell much into project management, but it was inspiring, a much needed booster in life. 

I thought I should share what I learned. 

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What is learning? How do you define learning? What is training?

As newbies at the workplace, we always lament the lack of training. Nowadays everyone, organizations, including the government is allocating large amount of budget for training or re-training. Some would demand you to train on-the-job. But do people really learn? How do you train someone effectively?

Learning brings change in behavior, and if there's no changes, learning did not happen - You may attend training, but there may not be learning. At the end, you didn't acquire knowledge that you WOULD use – You merely acquired attendance certificate. 

Training is like seeds. Training is when you have the best Roselle flower seeds, and plant it in your backyard. Afterwards, you still need to water it, add fertilizer, trim and tidy up the garden. If not, it'll become dried seeds. Most of the time, when things don't go right, we blame the seeds. It’s always someone else’s fault… We should never forget to look ourselves in the mirror.  

In pursue of training and education, we see many institutions being formed – colleges, universities, private schools, training centers… Training is big business. At the end, some institutions give education, but some give degrees. Most of the time, it's all up to the student.

Thursday, October 17, 2019

Practice the Art of Happiness

While I ate Nasi Goreng Ibunda (the 2nd time in 3 evenings), and a bowl of Mushroom soup, I came across this article in the 'Classified' Section of the News Straits Times (a paper I don't normally read) - Practice the Art of Happiness, by Dr. Victor SL Tan.

I found it extremely enlightening, and useful as a principle in life.

Dr. Tan first states that a happy workplace is a productive and creative workplace. When a person is happy, he/she is definitely more productive, motivated and positive. He/she could influence the rest to be happy too. So it looks imperative that leaders try to build a 'happy' workplace.

In the January-February 2012 issue of Harvard Business magazine, Shawn Achor says "success doesn't make you happy so much as happiness makes you more successful". Happiness is a state of mind.

Abraham Lincoln said: "Most folks are as happy as they made up theirs minds to be".

In short, Dr. Tan summed up the 4 proven ways to be happy:

1. Appreciate the blessings you have. 

Why focus on the don't haves or weaknesses all the time? If you have health, loved ones, jobs, belongings, occasional vacations.... Too often, we take for granted what we have until we lose them. What you don't appreciate, depreciates.

Maybe the next time WE start complaining, think twice.

2. Exorcise the unpleasant

Life is not a bed of roses. Unpleasant things will definitely happen in life. Too many of us are preoccupied with the misfortunes of yesteryears, which they cannot do anything about.

Professor William James said: "Acceptance of what has happened is the first step to overcome". The key to happiness is to exorcise our unpleasant past and exercise appreciation of the present, to help us create a better tomorrow.